February 10, 2010 Dear Mr. Cohen,

Thank you for requesting a meeting with the Chicago Chapter of the National Organization for Women to discuss the future of your political career.  Chicago NOW has been a stalwart defender of the rights of women and girls since 1967.  We appreciate that you recognize that fact enough to reach out to us, however belatedly.  Your spokesman’s email said that the requested meeting is critical to further your “understanding of women’s issues.”  We know that the world of women’s issues can be vast and complex, but there are some basics that you will need to cover before moving forward.  First and foremost, violence is never the answer.

The facts on domestic violence are devastating.  In 2006 the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control published a fact sheet stating that “women experience about 4.8 million intimate partner-related physical assaults and rapes” every year.  According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1,181 women were murdered by an intimate partner in 2005. That’s an average of three women every day. (Citations at

Mr. Cohen, we will consider meeting with you, but before any plans are made, we need you to make some changes to show the people of Illinois that you are really sincere.

  1. File the paperwork necessary to formally step down.
  2. Publicly acknowledge the allegations made against you by the women in your life.  If you have harmed these women, do not make excuses; simply state what you have done.
  3. Apologize
  4. Pay back any child support that is due.
  5. Commit to ending violence against women and girls in Illinois.

We hope you can understand why the allegations against you have caused such an upheaval.  We need leaders who can lead by example.  Perhaps we will meet face to face once this checklist is complete.  Until then, good luck with your endeavors.  We urge you to take this time to make yourself into a new person.

Best Regards,

Chicago Chapter of the National Organization for Women

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